While you are hurting, don't lose sight of God's plan. 2
A major reason why people forget about working toward certain goals is because they failed in pursuing them previously. They allowed the frustration of failure hinder their progress and resolve to keep going. I do not suggest that you forget about failure, beloved. By all means, it is best to remember your failures so that you know how to begin differently as well as become thankful that God picked you up from whatever it was that knocked you down.
Today, make up your mind to press through failure. There is nothing wrong with failing. Simply dust yourself off and begin again. You do not have a 3-shot limit in pursuing your goals. Keep going until you make it!